The meaning of this post is quite flexible; and I think that someone trying to find their true self is most definitely not lying about who they are; at least not any more than they have to. This statement is meant to be a reminder that you'll be happiest when you're fully yourself, not as something authoritative
I do not know you very well yet, but I still mean it when I say that; if there is anything that I could do to support you in finding yourself, I'd do it in a heartbeat.
@star Thank you. I think I can figure it out but it takes some time. It always does. Also thank you for your offer but I think what I really need is just some time to myself to think. Going out into nature helps