Things I always forget
"You can always ask or request basically anything, the answer might just be no""Dont overthink it, people generally dont secretly hate you"
"If people make time for you, even if they dont initiate much, they like you and want to spend time with you"
"You cannot pretend to be more interesting than you are"
"Most people like being asked questions about the thing they are talking about, so you can include yourself that way"
"Being weird is fun and not embarassing"
"Only initiate, when you have the spoons, other things wont work out long term anyway"
