📍 Dresden, DE studying computer stuff 🎓 software dev, sysadmin, local server maid 🔧 queer as in polyam transbian demi cuddleslut Relationship Anarchy AuDHD 24y/o
May post in German or English or beides.
- Follow requests of personal accounts are welcome! Please have a bio and some toots at least for a basic vibe check. Also, I appreciate any prior interactions (favorite/comment/...) so I have an idea why you're interested :) - DMs are open, especially for any trans siblings! - flirting with me is welcome! - going through my post history and liking a bunch of them is completely fine with me, in fact it makes me happy ^-^
sexual orientation labels, attraction, selfI label myself lesbian or sapphic because that's what I vibe the most with atm, but tbh I don't view that in a very strict way. It's more about the interpersonal vibe I associate with that, and I tend to find feminine features attractive and masculine features not. I can also find a non-feminine guy hot, and I find myself attracted to people for reasons detached from physical appearance as well, regardless of their (perceived) gender. When I started to discover my queerness I used to label myself bi, and I'd consider pan if I ever come across a guy I find myself attracted to personality wise who doesn't start transitioning after xD /hj (not that I have anything at all against more femmes :3 )
tl;dr: the universe is a hologram, attraction is a fuck, abolish categories and celebrate the wide spectrum of individual expression and so on
[read before following] meta, giving benefit of doubt, playing devils advocate, etcI do not want to associate with people who'd directly assume the worst possible intentions in others, even if they disagree hard on something the other one is talking about.
Neither do I want to associate with people who play devils advocate for others who show time and time again that they don't act in good faith, or "centrists" about uncompromisable issues like human rights.
And I especially don't want to have anything to do with anyone who'd find it acceptable to publicly slander others. (slander, not reasonably calling out bad behavior when that would benefit others.)
If we can't agree that that kind of conduct is bad, I don't think we'll get along, so please don't follow me in that case, thanks.
(This was prompted by several unrelated things, please don't assume knowing what or who this might be about. I won't comment about any specifics here either.)
@LenaEine Yeah, I also think that I've actively learned a lot of skills, because I had to. Not so much already by 17 when I did the diagnosis, but by today definitely. Especially with social and emotional skills/development, I always felt like I was lagging behind by about 5 years, but in the last few years I've done a lot and think I've caught up by now. ^^
@navi@star@fries@zotan It was mostly on mobile I think, can't reproduce now. But my point is, this wouldn't have been a problem in the first place if the built in, tried and tested issue tracker was used.
Sometimes I think it would be interesting to do those tests I did for my autism diagnosis 6-7 years ago* again now. Not that it matters, but it would be interesting to see if I've gotten any better at e.g. reading emotions visually (I absolutely bombed that one lol).
@navi@star@fries I don't think it being this kind of issue tracker is the issue here, it's just pointlessly obscure and yet another thing to get used to. Also the UI frequently broke for me with an error popup blocking me from seeing the already rendered page.
I think I would enjoy reading my home timeline more if I didn't have to press 'load more' 10 times to read the next newer posts, because Mona fetches them in the wrong order on Iceshrimp.NET for some reason. Maybe I'll get around to debugging this some time... (realistically not heh)
@star es gibt so Olivia Jones branded Kiezführungen mit speziellem Bezug auf queere Geschichte zum Teil. Fand ich sehr interessant ^^ (Hatte nur diesen miesen Albtraum danach 😅)
long-term estrogen effects nobody told me about, yearning, nsfw-adjacent@er I definitely get this full body sensation of pure bliss when really yearny, yeah ^^
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