a perhaps quite "up close and personal" note on the word "crossdresser"
holy shit what a terrible fucking word, it makes me even more angry than "trap". clothes have no fucking gender. therefore you cannot crossdress. it's dumb as fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck and i don't think the word is at a point at all where i could consider this to be "reclaiming" because holy SHIT do i see it used often but like, unironically