@Starcross okay actually. I wear a dog collar to work/around colleagues. It's a very neurodiverse environment and there's queers there. If someone wants to see my nudes, idk, but that's their choice. All my nudes/lewds are explicitly tagged with "Picture of me, if you do not want to see that" (including, of course, the labels for NSFW, nudity, etc.). My profile says "if you know me from irl/formal spaces, you likely shouldn't check this". What they do with that information is their choice
[This is an extremely privileged position and I am very very lucky to have such a positive work environment]

