kink discourse
reading "kink at congress" discourse and, I don't know how actually true this is but, at some point one just starts realizing how a lot of (vanilla) people's reaction to most kink is, like healthy, positive indifference, at least beyond the inherent curiosity most people have.
kink discourse
some people will be like "there's kink everywhere at congress and I don't like it" and it's like.
look, I get it, some things can poke at one's trauma and stuff. but like. just look at somewhere else. are you against people being kinky in front of you, or against people being kinky, period?