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do I block @a_blahaj or am I overreacting because I missed my meds?
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4 "sparkling fire" censord nfp @4censord@unfug.social
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@efi hmm, only a few messages of them federated to my server, and they do seem kinda insufferable
but i can't see anything malicious there
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celeste_hearts_lesbianceleste_hearts_transceleste_hearts_demisexual flori_ava_star:~cursor_blinking @star@amazonawaws.com
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@4censord @efi What the fuck am I missing here
I do not see anything annoying or insufferable or weird about this entities profile, their posts or replies of the past 10 days?
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celeste_hearts_lesbianceleste_hearts_transceleste_hearts_demisexual flori_ava_star:~cursor_blinking @star@amazonawaws.com
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@4censord @efi Also what kind of form is it to just openly call someone insufferable without like. Giving any details as to why? This is not being excellent to one another. I think or hope I am severely missing context here
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4 "sparkling fire" censord nfp @4censord@unfug.social
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@star @efi so thing is, everything I've said is subjective. Also, I specifically specified "with the posts that have randomly federated over", because noone on my server follows them. I also cannot confirm anything further, because everything on their own server is marked as private (the misskey "this post exists but is private/follower only" kinda thing)

But with how their profile looks, if they'd do a snarky/mansplainy/annoying reply to any of my posts, i'd permanently mute them without any further consideration. I'd not block them because they don't look malicious, just annoying.

Fedi is my happy space. That will be enforced with the mute/block button whenever I see fit.
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celeste_hearts_lesbianceleste_hearts_transceleste_hearts_demisexual flori_ava_star:~cursor_blinking @star@amazonawaws.com
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@4censord @efi I am not talking about that. I am talking about publically calling out/describing an individual as "insufferable"
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4 "sparkling fire" censord nfp @4censord@unfug.social
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@star @efi ahh hmm, i see
this was supposed to be followers only :/
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celeste_hearts_lesbianceleste_hearts_transceleste_hearts_demisexual flori_ava_star:~cursor_blinking @star@amazonawaws.com
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@4censord @efi oh. that... is unfortunate.....
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@star @4censord I did not intend to call out, merely ask, wrongly assumed the posts were public, and pointing out that im likely overreacting
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celeste_hearts_lesbianceleste_hearts_transceleste_hearts_demisexual flori_ava_star:~cursor_blinking @star@amazonawaws.com
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@efi @4censord well, i am not the one whose feelings were possibly hurt in this scenario. you do not need to explain this to me; though i would like to point out that intent rarely matters when looking at the shatters of the metaphorical glass one dropped
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@star @4censord I would care about the feelings of someone who had shown humanity towards me, which is not the case
sorry, my patience is not the best today
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@star @4censord yes, of course you are missing context; they have been butting into conversations, which is not something I generally mind, to explain to me things I know, which is where I am annoyed
the last example about minecraft mods and lisp just touched my fiber (and I missed my meds today)
blahaj.zone/notes/aeqzu93r1z54088b
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celeste_hearts_lesbianceleste_hearts_transceleste_hearts_demisexual flori_ava_star:~cursor_blinking @star@amazonawaws.com
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@efi @4censord since you asked: as an outsider, it seems like you are overreacting. I obviously cannot speak to messages that are not visible to me (i.e. direct/followers only), but I don't see anything they did wrong. Calling someone out like that is not nice, though. And that goes for the both of you
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@efi @star @4censord meow, to throw my two cents into the ring: it didn’t seem hostile to me. though if you wanna make sure, I recommend waiting a bit for your medicated self to have a look at it again

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