both Christmas and birthdays are the things I feel the most fake in social interaction
like, okay, it's true that for starters I don't care about my birthday, but we've not talked in the whole year, why are you calling me to wish me a happy birthday?
emotional abuse, I guess?@kitten (read following quote from perspective of any of my family members) "But Ava they are family"; yeah I am personally done with being taken hostage emotionally. I get to do what I want now.